Need Advice
#11
I dont think Id give up an opportunity like that.
When I moved out it was scary. My dad was really upset and scared that Id just abandon him and leave him with the bills. Once I calmed him down and everything worked out, he was fine. I think it was one of the best decisions I made.
You think you will have an opportunity for school later, but you might not. I dont think your mom would have wanted you to become a parent so early. School is such an important thing..if you finish it you can make a lot of money and provide for your family even better. Try to look for some schools nearby if its distance your worried about..Im sure there are plenty. But dont feel like your obligated to be basically a dad now. Your family comes first always, but your future is also very important.
Like I said, Im sure your mom wouldnt want you to not go to school.
When I moved out it was scary. My dad was really upset and scared that Id just abandon him and leave him with the bills. Once I calmed him down and everything worked out, he was fine. I think it was one of the best decisions I made.
You think you will have an opportunity for school later, but you might not. I dont think your mom would have wanted you to become a parent so early. School is such an important thing..if you finish it you can make a lot of money and provide for your family even better. Try to look for some schools nearby if its distance your worried about..Im sure there are plenty. But dont feel like your obligated to be basically a dad now. Your family comes first always, but your future is also very important.
Like I said, Im sure your mom wouldnt want you to not go to school.
#13
QUOTE (Dec @ Dec 7 2006, 12:45 PM)
God doesn't refuse anyone.
Word
I feel for you buddy. I don't have an answer for you either.
But at least spend time contemplating the idea of praying to God.
God is love, and he truly cares about you - as an individual.
He's there for you.
And I agree with what swift said - your mom would want you to go to college. I just don't know your whole circumstance. You have to figure that out.